A Minimal Christmas Time

As the year is coming to a close and Christmas will soon be upon us, I have been reflecting on how I have celebrated this holiday over the years.  As a child, my brother and I would get very excited about Christmas.

Arlene.Paul0001Most of the time we had a real tree that my father was in charge of decorating (he was the arty one).  Fake snow and loads of tinsel, and beautifully decorated glass ornaments that would seem very old fashioned now.

When I got married, I collected similar ornaments and I was sent ornaments from the USA when I moved to the UK.  My children grew up with a tradition that was passed down a generation.

Since I moved from London to the South Coast, I have had to downsize considerably.  Although I have a fairly large loft space, I don’t like having it full of stuff.  So, the decorations the children grew up with got taken up to London and now live with my daughter.  I have given away a lot also.  I am now down to a very small, pink tree that is fully loaded with decorations.  My husband decided to put the whole tree in a bag and I gained 3 extra storage boxes!  Plus I have a few lights in the fireplaces and few little things on the fire mantles.  I remember my mother-in-law whipping out a little tree with fibre optic lights and not much else.  I may be slowly turning into her by following her example.

Since my husband and I went travelling around South America 4 years ago, we have had a chance to see how other cultures celebrate Christmas, very low key.  They seem to celebrate on Christmas Eve and we didn’t see many decorations around.  When you don’t have much money, I suppose that isn’t that important.

I don’t remember many of the presents I have received over the years, but I do remember being around my family, grandparents and cousins.  Somehow, being with people is what makes a holiday for me, and is probably why Thanksgiving is so huge in America as no presents are involved – just food and people.  It also doesn’t have any religious attachment to it either.

I am not a religious person, but I still like Christmas, having a tree, making dinner, and having people around.  It is the only day of the year when I get all of my Christmas CD’s out and actually enjoy singing along while doing the dinner.  This year we have invited a friend as she would be on her own.  Otherwise it would be just the hubs and me, plus the dogs.  We won’t exchange presents as we don’t need anything or we already bought something at the time it was needed.  My two boys are in different countries, and my daughter is creating memories with a grandmother who may not be around in the foreseeable future (she has dementia which has steadily gotten worse).  As my daughter lives in London, she would usually come down to visit for her Christmas beforehand, but this year she was travelling for work, so I am not sure when I will see her next.  This is what happens when children are grown, have lives of their own, and don’t live near you.  You have to share them with others.

Where I live they have caroling at The Bandstand on Christmas and Boxing Day.  If it isn’t raining, we shall go with the dogs and sing a few songs and then pop into the pub for a swift one before having our Christmas dinner.  The dogs don’t know about holidays and all they care about is food and having a walk.  We might get them a big bone to chew on.

So, that is my evolution of Christmas.  However you all celebrate, I hope you have a wonderful day.  Thank you for stopping by and reading my blog and hope to see you next year!


3 thoughts on “A Minimal Christmas Time

  1. Snehal Kank

    It’s wonderful to read about your childhood memories and how you are celebrating your Christmas these years. Hope you will get to see your daughter soon. I can totally relate that bond as me and my sister are living in different countries and our mother is in different country.

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